Prayer matters – Advent Psalm of Thanksgiving, Part 3

As we learned in the previous post, when King David was in The Depths, his life, emotions and faith felt very dark.  The reality of life in The Depths brings us to the next matching pair in Psalm 30.  Look at verses 2-3.  David remembers when he called to God for help.  He remembers howContinue reading “Prayer matters – Advent Psalm of Thanksgiving, Part 3”

How to pray when you’re down – Advent Psalm of Thanksgiving, Part 2

The ancient Hebrews often uses parallel structures in their writing, and we see it throughout the Hebrew Bible, which we call the Old Testament.  It seems that Psalm 30 was written with one of those structures.  Here’s the way they work.  The opening matches the closing.  The second main point matches the second to lastContinue reading “How to pray when you’re down – Advent Psalm of Thanksgiving, Part 2”

Why humility, teachability and the Korean concept of Han are vital to confession – Advent Psalm of Confession, Part 5

As we learned in the previous post, when we confess our sins, we are trusting in God.  But there’s more. When we confess our sins, here is what we are to do next, as David writes in Psalm 32, verses 8-9, “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; IContinue reading “Why humility, teachability and the Korean concept of Han are vital to confession – Advent Psalm of Confession, Part 5”

Your mistakes do not define you – Advent Psalm of Confession, Part 4

Confession is not easy. We can rebel at the thought of admitting even the smallest mistakes. So to help us learn how to confess, David concludes with some instruction in Psalm 32.  Here is what we should do.  First, in verse 6. “Therefore let all the faithful pray to you while you may be found;Continue reading “Your mistakes do not define you – Advent Psalm of Confession, Part 4”

Resources for learning how to …Pray in the Spirit, Part 5

This week we have been learning what it means to pray in the Spirit. There are some helpful resources I would recommend. For the beginning of the day: The Daily Prayer services in the Book of Common Prayer. For the end of the day: St. Ignatius’ Prayer of Examen.  It has five steps. There areContinue reading “Resources for learning how to …Pray in the Spirit, Part 5”

What to do when praying seems difficult or impossible – Praying in the Spirit, Part 4

When my wife and I are sitting on the sofa in the evening, and she is talking, I will admit to you that sometimes I fall asleep.  Not good.  She is gracious.  Not necessarily happy about it.  But gracious.  I will also admit to you that when I practice meditative prayer, gazing on the beautyContinue reading “What to do when praying seems difficult or impossible – Praying in the Spirit, Part 4”

How to have two-way communication with God – Praying in the Spirit, Part 3

More than praying through lists, we were built to commune with God.  He doesn’t want us to be like the spouse that just gives him a to-do list (as I mentioned in this post).  God created us for communication, for a two-way relational conversation, not just with other humans, but also with him.  He createdContinue reading “How to have two-way communication with God – Praying in the Spirit, Part 3”

What I learned in a prayer class about…Praying in the Spirit, Part 3

In my sophomore year of Bible college I took a class on Prayer, and we had to pray for 30 minutes every day.  30 minutes!  That sounded impossibly long.  My history with prayer as a child and teenager, for the most part was those 5 minute or shorter prayer sessions, where I did all theContinue reading “What I learned in a prayer class about…Praying in the Spirit, Part 3”

To-Do Lists and…Praying in the Spirit, Part 1

There was a husband and wife who were having marital difficulties.  One of the spouses would wake up in the morning, lean over to their spouse and start listing what they wanted the spouse to do that day.  The list wouldn’t take long to recite.  Maybe five minutes at most.  Some days less.  Some daysContinue reading “To-Do Lists and…Praying in the Spirit, Part 1”

Why I don’t like the phrase “Prayer doesn’t change God, it changes us” – Praying in the Spirit, Preview

Have you ever heard that phrase, “Prayer doesn’t change God, it changes us”? Frankly, I don’t like that quote.  Well, to be precise, I don’t think the quote is nuanced enough. The quote is attributed to Danish Christian philosopher Soren Kierkegaard (1813-1855), whose work I generally appreciate, that is, when I understand it, which isContinue reading “Why I don’t like the phrase “Prayer doesn’t change God, it changes us” – Praying in the Spirit, Preview”