How David’s dysfunctional family teaches us about love, boundaries, and deflating drama – 2 Samuel 9, 13, 14, 15, Part 5

In 2 Samuel chapter 15, David’s son Absalom is scheming again.  This time he has his sights on the biggest prize.  The throne.  In verses 1-6, Absalom starts acting and talking to people like a king would act and talk.  He rides a chariot with an entourage.  He pronounces rulings by the city gate.  HeContinue reading “How David’s dysfunctional family teaches us about love, boundaries, and deflating drama – 2 Samuel 9, 13, 14, 15, Part 5”

When drama erupts in David’s family – 2 Samuel 9, 13, 14, 15, Part 4

Tamar sees the lust in her half-brother Amnon’s eyes, and she feels his tight grip around her. She is scared and as we learned in the previous post, Tamar makes a desperate plea for marriage.  Does it work? In 2 Samuel 13, verse 14, we read “But he refused to listen to her, and since heContinue reading “When drama erupts in David’s family – 2 Samuel 9, 13, 14, 15, Part 4”

People of God act to decrease drama – 2 Samuel 9, 13, 14, 15 – Part 2

In some cultures, particularly in the ancient world, kings sometimes purge their nations of any contenders to the throne.  Some even have members of their own extended family killed, just to preserve their lineage.  That kind of purge is the epitome of family drama.  In 2 Samuel 9, however, David does the opposite. David isContinue reading “People of God act to decrease drama – 2 Samuel 9, 13, 14, 15 – Part 2”

Can the Bible help us resolve family drama? – 2 Samuel 9, 13, 14, 15, Part 1

Do you have drama in your family?  I’m sure we could all tell stories.  The family member that no one talks to.  The family member that is difficult.  The family member that, when you are together, spends the whole time talking about themselves, and then just as they are about to leave says, “How areContinue reading “Can the Bible help us resolve family drama? – 2 Samuel 9, 13, 14, 15, Part 1”

King David was a drama magnet – 2 Samuel 9, 13, 14, 15, Preview

Are there people in your life who seem to attract more than their fair share of sickness, accidents, strange situations, or relational brokenness?  Maybe you’re thinking, “That’s me.”  Whether you or other people, some people seem like magnets for drama.  When I think of a drama magnet, I think of King David, who is famouslyContinue reading “King David was a drama magnet – 2 Samuel 9, 13, 14, 15, Preview”

How one family’s drama was healed – Characters: Joseph, Part 5

In this Characters installment, we have been following the family drama in the life of Joseph, one of the patriarchs of ancient Israel. His is a story of extremes. Joseph lost his mother in childhood, but was his father’s favorite. His father loved him, but his brothers hated him. He had dreams from God aboutContinue reading “How one family’s drama was healed – Characters: Joseph, Part 5”

How to respond to family drama – Characters: Joseph, Part 4

How do you respond to family drama? Roll your eyes? Frustration? Anger? Weeping? It is particularly difficult when it is the kind of family drama that has hurt you. When your family has betrayed you, the pain can go so deep. Have you ever experienced that? What should you do? How should you respond? InContinue reading “How to respond to family drama – Characters: Joseph, Part 4”

When God is nowhere to be found – Characters: Joseph, Part 2

Have you ever felt utterly alone and abandoned by your family, friends, and even by God? If so, you’re not alone. Maybe people hurt you. Maybe you made a bad choice. Maybe life turned out different from your hopes and dreams. There are many ways we can find ourselves in despair. Keep reading as ourContinue reading “When God is nowhere to be found – Characters: Joseph, Part 2”

Do you have family drama? Characters – Joseph, Part 1

Family drama.  None of your families have drama, right?  Yeah, mine neither.  (I hope you don’t believe that.) Actually, family drama is the stuff of life. We all have it.  Think about all the words we use to describe it.  Some of you might remember the classic line from the sitcom Friends, “We were onContinue reading “Do you have family drama? Characters – Joseph, Part 1”