On Being Holy – 1 Corinthians 1:1-3

Two days ago we started a series teaching through the book of 1st Corinthians.  It’s actually not a book, but a letter.  As I mentioned last week here, Paul is writing to a church that is struggling to maintain it’s discipleship to Jesus in the midst of the wealthy overly-sexualized culture.

In other words, he’s writing to us, American church.

How should he start?  How would you start?  What do you want to say to the American church?  If you could have a voice to the many millions of Christians across our land, what would you say?  I’d be interested in your thoughts in the comment section below!

What does Paul say?  He reminds them that they are holy in union with Christ, called to be holy.  What does it mean to be holy?

Perfect?  Maybe.

Holier than thou?  Not so much.

You can listen to sermon here, if you want a longer treatment.  Basically Paul is reminding the Christians in the city of Corinth, and he is reminding us as well, that we are holy in Christ, consecrated into a special relationship with our Lord.  We are called to become like him.

Our denomination has a history of focusing on holiness as vital to a disciple of Jesus, and based on 1 Corinthians 1:1-3, Paul is in agreement.  Jesus himself said in Matthew 5:42, “Be holy, as your heavenly father is holy.”  We are to pursue holiness in our lives.

We do this first and foremost through an attitude that believes Jesus lived a holy life, and that he offers to us, as his disciples, a renewal, a change, a new life.  He called it the abundant life, and said he came to give it to us. Do we really believe that his offer of abundant life is better than the options for life that our society and culture has to offer?  Our culture really promotes a version of the good life that seems so wonderful.  And yet Jesus said that he came that we might have abundant life.  Who do we believe?

If we believe Jesus, then we pursue becoming holy as he is holy.  It might be a lifelong journey.  Frankly, for the vast majority of us, it will be a lifelong journey.  There will be struggles, failures, victory and growth.  Praise the Lord for his empowerment and grace offered to us in the journey of holiness.

The pursuit of holiness, then, is not about a program, but about desiring with all your heart to be more like Jesus.

So what is Jesus like?  Check out this classic:

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How do you write a letter to a church in a hyper-sexualized culture?

How do you start a letter to a church that is out of control?  What would you say?

Imagine you’re a leader of a group of churches.  Maybe a denominational CEO, a bishop, a district superintendent, a conference minister.  You are responsible for the spiritual health and vitality of the many pastors and congregations under your care.  To stay in touch, you visit them once each year or so.

You start hearing some strange stories from one particular church.  Apparently their worship services are wild.  People are interrupting one another, pushing each other out of the limelight.  And at communion, one group is gobbling up the food and drink, leaving nothing but crumbs for the rest.  But it’s not just wacky worship.  You hear stories of incest, inappropriate sexuality, and people suing one another in court. There are stories that some of them might be saying that your central teaching is being denied.  Resurrection is impossible, they say.  There are factions in the church.  You love these people, but you have to admit, they’re a mess.

You know you need to write them a letter.  Well, better yet, you know you need to visit, but a letter will get there quicker.  So you get a scribe and begin.

But you stall, not sure what to say.  These people are dealing with intense pressures.  They live in a town where the pressure to conform is great.  They number maybe 25-50 in a town of half a million or so. It’s a very religious town, with multiple temples, but it is an ungodly place, where the religion is basically sexual expression.  No wonder this church is struggling.  Following Jesus is so different from their culture, especially in the area of sexuality.  How can you help them without just saying “Stop it, you idiots?”

What would you say?  How would you start your letter to actually get their attention, so they would take you seriously?

That’s our task this Sunday.  We start a series studying Paul’s letter to the Christians in Corinth.  It was a tough place to be a new church, but the descriptions of Corinth are eerily similar to American culture in our day.  With all the twerking, sexting, porn at our fingertips, and just plain old regular TV, it is hard to be a faithful follower of Jesus in our day.  Especially in the area of sexuality.  As a father of teenagers I think about what to tell them, how to lead them.  I want them to be pure, but I admit I hardly know what to say sometimes.  “Just be pure!”  I just want them to get it, to buy into it, to see the emptiness of our hyper-sexualized culture easily.  But it isn’t easy.   It is deceptively difficult.  I don’t have it all figured out, but I see Paul begin his letter to the Corinthian church is a very thought-provoking way.  We’ll take a look at his intro 1 Cor 1:1-3 to see how he starts his letter to a very troubled church.

Blog Year in Review – Best of 2013?

Take a guess, what do you think was the most viewed blog post in 2013?  Faith Church added a new traditional worship service back in June, and I wrote quite a bit about worship over the last year.  In fact, my post entitled “Could Starting An Addition Worship Service Be Of The Devil” was the blog’s #2 post in 2013 with 222 views.  “Why I Dislike Church Worship Surveys Very, Very Much” was 4th with 170 views.  “Follow up to Do We Need to Stop Singing in Worship?” made the top ten also.

But not all that talk about worship got the top spot.  There was something else.  Sometime more important, something that pulls us in, that fuels our lives, that inspires us.

In fact the top post was not only the top post of the year, but it was almost always in the top five viewed posts of every single week of the year.  People were searching for it.  People wanted to know more about it.

What was so interesting, so engaging?

Coffee.

That’s right.  The top post of the year is all about coffee.  Last year for Christmas, Michelle bought us one of Starbucks’ refillable January travel mugs.  Free coffee for a month!  But was it worth it?  After the month was over, I wrote some reflections, and that has become the most popular post on the blog with 294 views.

Grab a cup of coffee, and enjoy the post again: Reflections On A Month of Free Coffee From Starbucks.

Here’s looking to a wonderful New Year, and all that God will do in and through us at Faith Church!

How’s Things Goin’ With The Church?

One of the most frequent questions I receive from people outside the church is  “So how are things going with the church?”   I think most people ask that question from a rather innocent position.  For them it is a simple question. A normal question.  A pastor works with a church, and when you’re talking with a pastor wouldn’t it be normal to ask them how things are going with the church?  Sure.  But here’s where it gets interesting.  The answer!

And the expected answer?  “Good!  Things are good.”

But, oh, there is so much more to that answer.  When they ask me how things are going, I often wonder if they really want to know.  If they have time to have a real conversation.

This coming Sunday we’re going to split the sermon in two.  The first half we’ll take some time to look at how things are going with the church.  Not nearly enough time to dig deeply into the answer.  But I want to spend a few minutes discussing it with you from my perspective.

But to get ready for that, I wonder if you might take a look back at Faith Church’s 2013.  Have you seen how Facebook gives you a year in review?

I looked at mine, and it was interesting how Facebook skipped over stuff.  I wonder what kind of algorithm they used to pick what posts they selected for our year in review.  It is a creative idea and a fun feature.  We are a people who love to look back.  So this time of year there on TV you get a blizzard of Best of 2013 shows.  Maybe your Facebook year in review missed a lot of your special events too.  Ever notice how that happens with people too?  We see things from a certain perspective…our OWN perspective.  But someone else looking at the same situation sees things differently.  Or they remember things we forgot.  Do you remember what 2013 was like for Faith Church?  Maybe you could scroll down through our Facebook page and check it out?  Maybe in the comments section below you could share you favorite memories!

Is your church keeping you from loving one another?

Yesterday we finished The Advent Conspiracy series.  Over the past four weeks we have been challenged to Worship Fully, Spend Less, Give More, and yesterday Love All.

All?  That can seem impossible.  If we see the extreme difference between ourselves and others, it can seem like a chasm we could never cross and don’t want to.  People can be so hard to love.  The people we just don’t like or find offensive or beneath us or disgusting.

But everyone was beneath Jesus.  Imagine the gulf he had to cross!  It was incalculable.  And yet there he is, becoming human. Born as a baby into the lowest of circumstances.  And not only that, dying for us.

If he went the ultimate distance for us, we have a great impetus to cross that gulf for the people in our world.

Consider this:

What does that look like?  To grow in love?  Especially loving the unlovely?

Jesus told his disciples that we should be known for how much we love one another.

A question that I have been wrestling with is this: Does an institutional church keep us from loving one another?  Let me explain a bit more.  An institutional church is heavy on structures, programs, building-centered.  The answer to nearly every need, whether it be “how do we make disciples” or “how do we reach the poor” is a program.  The conclusion is that if church is about programs, then being a good Christian is about showing up at programs.

Have a need? Here’s a class!  Want to be a good disciple? Show up at the program.  Reach the needy?  Start a ministry.

But what about relationships?  “By this all men will know that you are my disciples, that you love one another.”

Look at the early church in Acts 2:42-47 and 4:32-37. Love for one another was the focus.  They were especially generous toward those in need!  How far will we go to show our love for those in need?

A skeptical world needs to see us practice what we preach, and that is primarily love.

Who do you feel is unlovable in your life?  Will you reach out to them like this man?:

Love All? Really? It’s impossible.

Seems impossible, doesn’t it?

Love all?  The scope is too wide.  Wouldn’t it be more realistic to scale the sample down a bit, or a lot?  Maybe it would be more acceptable to say “Love your family, your friends?”

Then there is the issue of how freaking difficult it is to love some people.  You could probably think of a few people in your life.  Who comes to mind when you think of the word “difficult”?  When we think of those people, we don’t want to love them, and we don’t feel we need to.  Or if we have a sense that we should love them, we can justify not doing so because they are so difficult.

The needy person, the long-talker, the negative person, the complainer, the arrogant one, the know-it-all. 

The person who always raises their hand to answer every question.  (I didn’t plan on writing this many examples…I’m on a roll now, so as you can tell, I have some complaining going on inside me!)

These are difficult people to love!  We would rather not spend time with them.  We would rather avoid them. 

And yet Christmas is about an amazing act of love to a people that were not lovely. 

Loving the unlovely.  Is this not what the birth of Christ is all about?  The Bible describes it this way: “the people walking in darkness have seen a great light.”  Praise God that he did not turn his nose up at unlovely people.  Praise him that he lovingly gave himself to reach out to his people who needed his love. 

Christmas is a time for worshipping God because he loved the unlovely.  It is also a reminder to us to do the same. 

Who are the unlovely in your life?  What will it take to love them?Image

Give More…coupons?

This past Sunday the theme was Give More, and AC suggests that, instead of giving presents, we should give presence.  Give the gift of spending time building relationships with people.  This idea flows from the example of our Lord who gave us the gift of himself.  In John 1 we learn that “the Word became flesh and dwelt among us.”  In Philippians 2:5-11 we read, similarly, that Jesus emptied himself, being made in human likeness.  He gave us the gift of his presence!  One of his names is Emmanuel, meaning “God with us.”  We talked about how to give the gift of presence.

So at sermon roundtable, one of our people had the brilliant idea of creating a coupon exchange where we give gifts like “1 hour of babysitting” or “teach you to make a pie”, etc.  We handed our blank coupons, and asked people to write their gift and name on the coupon, then come forward and hang it on a Christmas tree.  When they hung a coupon, they could take a coupon.

Advent Conspiracy coupon

What give did you receive?  How can you give the gift of presence to your family and friends this Christmas?  Maybe you can give more coupons!

(One guy came up to me, as I was sitting in the front pew waiting for people to be done, singing along with the praise team, and he handed me a coupon.  It said “I will clean your toilet for four hours.”  It was signed by his wife, but in his hand-writing.  I chuckled immediately, looked up, and he was smiling while she was shaking her head.)

The Most Obnoxious Christmas Commercial of All Time

Before you read further, stop here and think to yourself: what is the most awful, obnoxious Christmas commercial you’ve ever seen?  Maybe write it down.  Maybe comment in the comment section below.  Take a few moments and get some options in mind.

The commercials I am referring to have become a staple of Christmas television for the last ten years.  One author calls them the most obnoxious of all time.  Here’s an example from 2011 (2013’s version is not much better):

Did you guess Lexus?

As we continue our study of The Advent Conspiracy, this Sunday we will talk about giving more.  So we’re going to learn how to give our loved ones luxury cars for Christmas!

Or maybe not. Is there another way to Give More?

Whenever pastors start talking about giving more, people get nervous.  They get “sick” and have to stay home from worship that Sunday.  Let me tell you from the other side of the pulpit (which I never use anymore), that pastors hate preaching about giving.  How can we convey biblical teaching so that it doesn’t come off as self-serving?  It is awkward all around.

Perhaps we can look at it differently.  In the Advent Conspiracy, we have already talked about how the focus of Christmas is to worship God, and so we worship him by spending less, in order that we might be able to give more.  If we spend less, though, won’t we have less to give?  Come find out!

When spending less means spending more

Christmas and spending less are two concepts that don’t mix in our culture. Spending more?  Now that’s the idea!

From the pulpits and the prophets we hear a lot each year about spending less.  But what if spending less means spending more?

Phil Bartelt preached the second Advent Conspiracy theme yesterday: Spend Less.  He mentioned the following video:

While SNL was being very funny, they were also pointing out a grim reality.  When we think about all the great deals on Black Friday that drive people like herders driving cattle into stores, creating a stampede-like chaos, have you ever considered how a store can sell a TV so inexpensively?  We thrive on the idea of paying less.  We’re getting a deal!  But how are we able to get that deal?  Is the store willing to make less money so we don’t have to spend as much?  You know the answer to that is a big fat “No!”.  We call these deals “steals”, but is it possible that we are stealing from someone?

The sad answer is “Yes.”  All too often it is the unseen worker, usually in another country, that is making it possible for us to get our cheap TVs.  Remember the factory collapse in Bangladesh that killed 1000 workers? 

Apparently there are still problems.  Perhaps a large part of the ongoing problem is that we, the consumers of the clothing, just keep buying them, no matter that the workers are paid a pittance they cannot live on, and their working considers are literally deadly.

James, the brother of Jesus, and leader of the early church in Jerusalem, said that the Lord is very concerned when we don’t pay workers their due.  Read James 5:1-5.  His strong words should give us pause before going to the mall at Christmas.

Lest this start to turn negative, there is hope!  Spend MORE!  That’s right.  More.  More wisely.  More justly.  And, yes, that might mean more money too.  If we know that a dress could be had for $15, we like that price.  But when the $15 dress was made in a falling down factory in Bangladesh with workers paid a wage that keeps them in poverty (sounds like slavery, doesn’t it?), perhaps that $15 isn’t enough?  Instead, we need to find clothes and other products that are actually fairly made, even if it costs us more.  And once we start looking, once we make the commitment to honor the Lord and pay workers fairly, what we find is amazing!  There are companies dedicated to fair trade, direct trade, fair wage employment.  One such company is Imagine Goods, which sells many kinds of clothing and home goods.  You can even meet the people who make their products!  There are other similar companies as well.

This Christmas perhaps you’ll experience the joy of spending less by spending more!

YOLO!!!!!

Over the last year I became familiar with a new acronym.  Our digital culture loves acronyms! 

Have you heard of YOLO???  While YOLO is true, how should we think about it? 

From the Advent Conspiracy:

Quick question for you: What was the one gift you remember getting for Christmas last year?

Next question: What about the fourth gift? Do you remember that one?

Truth is many of us don’t because it wasn’t something we necessarily wanted or needed. Spending Less isn’t a call to stop giving gifts; it’s a call to stop spending money on gifts we won’t remember in less than a year. America spends around $450 billion dollars during the Christmas season, and much of that goes right onto a credit card. By spending wisely on gifts we free ourselves from the anxiety associated with debt so we can take in the season with a full heart.

But how do we do this?  And what does it really matter?  Why not just enjoy life?  YOLO!  Right? Have any ideas?  Come prepared to think and discuss deeply as Phil Bartelt teaches our Second Week of Advent theme: Spend Less.

(By the way, what is YOLO???)