Delegation is discipleship that builds up the church – Caring for one another, Part 4

Though I’m a leader, I sometimes struggle with delegation, as there are times when I think it will be so much easier and faster if I just handle whatever matter is before me.  Getting others involved takes time, and they might not do the work like I think it should be done.  Maybe you knowContinue reading “Delegation is discipleship that builds up the church – Caring for one another, Part 4”

A powerful question for church families – Caring for one another, Part 3

My wife and I recently watched the television series, New Amsterdam. It’s about a public hospital in New York City. The main character Max Goodwin is the medical director, and he asks a question repeatedly in nearly every episode of the series. (He might ask it in every episode! I didn’t keep track.). His question, which I’ll revealContinue reading “A powerful question for church families – Caring for one another, Part 3”

Be thankful for your messy church family – Caring for one another, Part 2

Are there awkward people in your church family? Perhaps people who talk your ear off, over-sharing, while you’re struggling to find a way to get out of the conversation in which they have done 95% of the talking, and it’s going on 30 minutes with no end in sight. Perhaps there are the people who have RBFContinue reading “Be thankful for your messy church family – Caring for one another, Part 2”

God hates visionary dreamers? – Caring for one another, Part 1

I want to begin with a shocking quote. At least I think it is shocking. See if you think it is shocking.  Here is the quote: “God hates visionary dreamers.”  How do you feel about that statement?  “God hates visionary dreamers.” Thumbs up or Thumbs down?  Thumbs down, right?  The concept of visionary dreamers seemsContinue reading “God hates visionary dreamers? – Caring for one another, Part 1”

The effect of church families gathering for prayer – Praying together, Part 4

The first Christians spent the better part of three years observing Jesus’ practice of prayer. They heard him teach about prayer. Years later when they instinctively gather for prayer over and over and over, they demonstrate for us their commitment to do what Jesus did and taught.  In Acts 4, as we saw in the previous post,Continue reading “The effect of church families gathering for prayer – Praying together, Part 4”

Prayer as an instinct – Praying Together, Part 3

I visited my son, daughter-in-law, and two grandkids in Pittsburgh recently.  Though my kids live in Lancaster, my granddaughter was born four hours away in Pittsburgh because she has a heart condition.  So I got to meet her for the first time in the Cardiac Intensive Care Unit of UPMC Children’s Hospital.  She was hookedContinue reading “Prayer as an instinct – Praying Together, Part 3”

What kind of prayer meetings does God desire? – Praying together, Part 1

Do you remember the Asbury outpouring that happened last year?   From February 8, 2023, all the way to February 24th, 2023, that’s 17 days, there was a continuous, 24/7, worship and prayer event at Asbury University in Wilmore, Kentucky.  Throughout history there have been numerous such extended prayer efforts. In fact, the International House ofContinue reading “What kind of prayer meetings does God desire? – Praying together, Part 1”

Why I decided to cancel our church’s weekly prayer meeting, and why I told people I would not start it back up – Praying together, Preview

When I started as Faith Church’s Youth/Associate Pastor in 2002, Faith Church held weekly Sunday morning worship, Sunday evening worship and Wednesday prayer meeting.  A few years later the Sunday evening service had dwindled to the point where maybe a handful of people attended, and we canceled it.  At that time Wednesday prayer meeting wasContinue reading “Why I decided to cancel our church’s weekly prayer meeting, and why I told people I would not start it back up – Praying together, Preview”

How accountability supercharges our discipleship to Jesus – Holding others accountable, Part 5

I first experienced accountability with my friend Chris.  We met in the dorm in college, where he was my RA, resident assistant, in charge of my dorm section my sophomore year.  We started meeting weekly to ask each other accountability questions.  We wrote out lists of questions we wanted the other person to ask us,Continue reading “How accountability supercharges our discipleship to Jesus – Holding others accountable, Part 5”

The Bible’s helpful teachings about confronting others – Holding others accountable, Part 4

I hate confrontation. I think most people also hate confrontation. When I have to confront someone, I can delay and avoid like a champ. Then when I can wait no longer, and the confrontation actually happens, I can say far less than I ought to have said. My emotions and fears take over. I can physically shake. I hate it. But ifContinue reading “The Bible’s helpful teachings about confronting others – Holding others accountable, Part 4”